Dating a man twice my age discussion
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Pictured below are some single users in their mid-thirties or early forties, taken from the first couple pages of my own local match search.
Because men’s dating preferences skew so young, and women’s are age-equitable, men peak later, and have a longer plateau of desirability, than women.
No matter what he’s telling himself on his setting page, a 30 year-old man spends as much time messaging 18 and 19 year-olds as he does women his own age.
On the other hand, women only a few years older are largely neglected.
Again, these are just a handful of examples; whether we ask about bondage or kissing, women are the most sexual in their thirties.
Researching this post, I also came upon an interesting complementary pair of graphs illustrating sexual dominance preferences. Older women are generally interested in doing just that.) and both, like all stereotypes, are reductionist and stupid and I’ve tried to avoid them.
I hesitated beginning my case for older women with something about their sexuality, like I did in Exhibit A, because that territory borders right on cougar country.
But the evidence there was too compelling to ignore.So you can see how differently women think about dating and age, here are the corresponding charts for them: Except in their early to mid-twenties, when they apparently want nothing to do with younger guys (i.e. ), women show an admirable openness to both reasonably younger and reasonably older men.Notice also how a woman’s actual messaging activity, shown in the heat map below, is roughly centered on her own age (as illustrated by the dotted “age parity” line). These color discontinuities indicate dramatic changes in a woman’s dating mentality: when a women turns 20 she decides it’s okay to message significantly older men (i.e.On the other hand, I found no basis whatsoever for Ms.Zellweger’s version of the thirty-something single woman.At the graph’s outer edge, at age 48, men are nearly twice as sought-after as women.