After dating for 2 years
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By being patient and not putting pressure on her boyfriend, she allowed it to develop into a healthy, loving relationship that has a chance of going the distance.
So I realized that I said I’d wait for him, but I still find myself trying to pressure him to take the next step.
I know this all sounds like justification, but he really has made improvements in the past year.
Before me, he was in two longer-term relationships, and he said that he’s never had what we have now, that he’s never even considered marriage and kids with anyone else before and that I’m not just his girlfriend, I’m his best friend.
Then there's the whole idea that "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else." Which is right?
How long should you , says it's hard to put a number on it—but you'll probably want to wait at least a month before jumping back into the dating pool again."Most people need a month or two to process the breakup, to mourn, and to integrate lessons before jumping back in if they were in a fairly serious relationship," she says.
I think I need to stop if I truly believe it when I say that I’ll wait and be patient, but I’m not sure how to do just back off and give him the space he needs to make a decision.
Am I being completely foolish and just a pathetic girl? Thanks, Sophie Dear Sophie, I know you’re looking for advice, but I want to use your email as a teaching tool.So while you might think, “Yeah, but she may have wasted three years on a guy who won’t marry her,” you’d be mistaken.Sophie said herself that her relationship wasn’t a waste of time, no matter what happens next.He’s been working on it for more than 2 years so I don’t know if that’s also a factor in why he’s reluctant to move forward.We almost never fight, but when we do it’s always about the bigger issue: our future together. I’ve told him that I’ll wait and believe he’ll be worth it.Their girlfriends were all 3-4 years older, and they were feeling far more biological pressure than I suspect that you do. Thus, the only leverage you have is to walk away from him and see if he follows. These are just things that you might do to avoid breaking up, but they don’t ensure that you’ll be together forever. You talk about your boyfriend’s “professional priorities” that prevent him from proposing. My best friend is getting married this week even though he’s quitting his safe job as a lawyer to start his own company. Hopefully by dating, she -and eventually he- will see her real values.